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05.Sep.13, 02:24 AM
O'wain's eyebrow rose when Quenym slipped about who pulled the good prank. He gave a slow smile and winked at him. It was a clever prank and one of the few that didn't hurt or embarrass anybody. Colored stones wouldn't offend anybody as far as he knew. "It was a clever prank, amusing and harmless. I don't know where else these colored rocks showed up and I doubt anybody would be angry about it."
"Painting the doors of the main entrance to the Weyr or dinning area such bright colors..that may anger somebody." O'wain paused then grinned. "Now that's an idea, paint the doors bright colors. They are so drab and boring right now."
"Doing what you are told isn't really responsibility though following the rules is part of being responsible. If one is expected to do what they are told it does fall under the heading of 'responsibility'. Sometimes to be responsible one has to break orders too. Responsibility in my mind is just accepting what you do or don't do has consequences and you are willing to accept them. Following orders just means being obedient and one can be obedient and irresponsible. It gets complicated if you think about it too much. In the end do what you feel is right and accept the consequences if it happens to be against the status quo but always look out for your friends. Friends are important in my book."
When Quenym moved the conversation from what makes a man to sex, O'wain studied the young man. He was young with his first sexual experience, younger than Quenym most likely. He just experimented till it felt really good and the girls didn't hate him for it. He became better by asking what they liked as he tried different things.
"Sex, a very tricky subject, especially when it's figuring out when a girl is ready for it. It's never good to push or force a girl into it if she's not ready, one reason I really do like the rule about all candidates should have sex before standing. Flightlust, especially between the rider of a female dragon and the rider of the dragon who caught her, is quite intense. You are totally caught up in the lust of your dragon and really don't have much control over your actions. Fortunately the heavy load of lust pounding into you from a dragon does get things prepared which otherwise could make the experience far worse otherwise. Not having a clue what is to happen can freak out riders of a maiden flight. Knowing what sex is and how it feels and being comfortable about it before hand, means its simply an enjoyable ride." O'wain smirked. "But we will focus on human sex, the dragons know what they are doing when the time comes and your Weyrling Master will detail what a rider needs to do for the safety of their dragons during that time."
"First, telling a girl you like her, think she's pretty, or has a great personality and you enjoy talking and doing things with her, is one way to break the ice. If it's true of course, some are quite good at figuring out you are lying if you don't think she's pretty, hate being around her etcetera. If she's already a friend, you can ask her on a date or simply being more physical with her. Holding her hand, kissing her cheek or forehead, leaning against her, whisper how good she makes you feel into her ear. If she's responding well, you can try to kiss her on the lips, short and quick. I suggest since you never did it before, is don't rush anything. Your body may be wanting you to go faster because things feel so good but hold yourself back. LIke shoving a pie into your mouth all at once, it's really delicious but before you know it, it's all gone. IF yo nibble the pie slowly, enjoying each part, the pie will be very delicious and for a long time. By the time you are finished a whole pie, you won't feel like it was gone so fast you didn't even remember the taste."
"I think it would be best we break down the talk of sex in sections. First, have you kissed this girl much if at all? I am assuming you have one in mind, Casa I presume?" O'wain recalled he mentioned something about Casa impressing a gold she would be expected to hang around bronze dragonriders. which reminded him he didn't comment on that aspect.
"Oh and as for Casa impressing a gold and being stuck hanging around the bronze riders, that's not strictly true. She can hang around with whoever she wants. As a goldrider it doesn't mean the only people she can associate with would be bronze riders. In truth all it means is when her gold rises to mate, the bronze dragons will chase her so most times she will end up in bed with a bronze rider. As her dragon won't be senior, she doesn't have to be with that bronze rider or any dragonrider outside of mating flights if that is her choice. Brown dragons and the ambitions blue will chase golds too. Nishkath has chased golds in the past and we will likely be chasing them in the future. So if you end up on a brown, you can chase her gold."
"Anyway, back to sex. How much experience do you have kissing?" O'wain moved to a more comfortable topic. He didn't want the boy to put two and two together and realize Nishkath was likely to chase this Casa's dragon if she Impressed a gold, or green for that matter. But all blues, browns and bronzes were likely to do so. No shortage of horny dragonriders at Katala.
Once Quenym responded, O'wain answered the boy's questions to the best of his ability, detailing the many aspects of wooing a girl to one's bed and still be friends afterwards. He had to wing a few areas as O'wain was very much a womanizer and often left broken hearts in his wake. He didn't mean to, he just wasn't the sort of guy to form serious attachments.
"Painting the doors of the main entrance to the Weyr or dinning area such bright colors..that may anger somebody." O'wain paused then grinned. "Now that's an idea, paint the doors bright colors. They are so drab and boring right now."
"Doing what you are told isn't really responsibility though following the rules is part of being responsible. If one is expected to do what they are told it does fall under the heading of 'responsibility'. Sometimes to be responsible one has to break orders too. Responsibility in my mind is just accepting what you do or don't do has consequences and you are willing to accept them. Following orders just means being obedient and one can be obedient and irresponsible. It gets complicated if you think about it too much. In the end do what you feel is right and accept the consequences if it happens to be against the status quo but always look out for your friends. Friends are important in my book."
When Quenym moved the conversation from what makes a man to sex, O'wain studied the young man. He was young with his first sexual experience, younger than Quenym most likely. He just experimented till it felt really good and the girls didn't hate him for it. He became better by asking what they liked as he tried different things.
"Sex, a very tricky subject, especially when it's figuring out when a girl is ready for it. It's never good to push or force a girl into it if she's not ready, one reason I really do like the rule about all candidates should have sex before standing. Flightlust, especially between the rider of a female dragon and the rider of the dragon who caught her, is quite intense. You are totally caught up in the lust of your dragon and really don't have much control over your actions. Fortunately the heavy load of lust pounding into you from a dragon does get things prepared which otherwise could make the experience far worse otherwise. Not having a clue what is to happen can freak out riders of a maiden flight. Knowing what sex is and how it feels and being comfortable about it before hand, means its simply an enjoyable ride." O'wain smirked. "But we will focus on human sex, the dragons know what they are doing when the time comes and your Weyrling Master will detail what a rider needs to do for the safety of their dragons during that time."
"First, telling a girl you like her, think she's pretty, or has a great personality and you enjoy talking and doing things with her, is one way to break the ice. If it's true of course, some are quite good at figuring out you are lying if you don't think she's pretty, hate being around her etcetera. If she's already a friend, you can ask her on a date or simply being more physical with her. Holding her hand, kissing her cheek or forehead, leaning against her, whisper how good she makes you feel into her ear. If she's responding well, you can try to kiss her on the lips, short and quick. I suggest since you never did it before, is don't rush anything. Your body may be wanting you to go faster because things feel so good but hold yourself back. LIke shoving a pie into your mouth all at once, it's really delicious but before you know it, it's all gone. IF yo nibble the pie slowly, enjoying each part, the pie will be very delicious and for a long time. By the time you are finished a whole pie, you won't feel like it was gone so fast you didn't even remember the taste."
"I think it would be best we break down the talk of sex in sections. First, have you kissed this girl much if at all? I am assuming you have one in mind, Casa I presume?" O'wain recalled he mentioned something about Casa impressing a gold she would be expected to hang around bronze dragonriders. which reminded him he didn't comment on that aspect.
"Oh and as for Casa impressing a gold and being stuck hanging around the bronze riders, that's not strictly true. She can hang around with whoever she wants. As a goldrider it doesn't mean the only people she can associate with would be bronze riders. In truth all it means is when her gold rises to mate, the bronze dragons will chase her so most times she will end up in bed with a bronze rider. As her dragon won't be senior, she doesn't have to be with that bronze rider or any dragonrider outside of mating flights if that is her choice. Brown dragons and the ambitions blue will chase golds too. Nishkath has chased golds in the past and we will likely be chasing them in the future. So if you end up on a brown, you can chase her gold."
"Anyway, back to sex. How much experience do you have kissing?" O'wain moved to a more comfortable topic. He didn't want the boy to put two and two together and realize Nishkath was likely to chase this Casa's dragon if she Impressed a gold, or green for that matter. But all blues, browns and bronzes were likely to do so. No shortage of horny dragonriders at Katala.
Once Quenym responded, O'wain answered the boy's questions to the best of his ability, detailing the many aspects of wooing a girl to one's bed and still be friends afterwards. He had to wing a few areas as O'wain was very much a womanizer and often left broken hearts in his wake. He didn't mean to, he just wasn't the sort of guy to form serious attachments.
