04.Sep.13, 08:58 PM
O'wain laughed when Quenym pointed out how other men may not think he was all that manly. As the boy worried he was going to get into trouble or had offended him, O'wain reached over and ruffled his hand through the boy's hair.
"No need to be sorry, I did sort of lead myself open for. In a way it's true, there are many things I don't take seriously enough. I enjoy a good laugh, love to party, and I most definitely enjoy being around women in all their frilly splendor. I do what work I am expected to do to the best of my ability, that I don't shirk...but I am far from the perfect man in most women's minds. I am the perfect man for a good time however."
"If she already likes these things in you, you don't have to change who you are. Just be who you are around her. Otherwise, if you try and change, and end up changing in the wrong way, she may not like it as much. It's a good idea to make a few modifications to ensure she's happy. SHe likes you in a leadership role, which could simply mean she likes to follow your lead in things. It doesn't necessarily mean being responsible. It is good to be aware she could get hurt if you do reckless things so being a little more careful won't hurt. There are plenty of ways to have great fun without turning into a boring stick in the mud."
"Planning something for you two to do together then surprising her with it, is one way to take charge and take care of her. That surprise can be anything from cooking a nice meal with your own hands to finding the perfect spot further up the river where there is a big tree perfect for climbing. Once you get there you have a picnic lunch all set up for you two to enjoy. And climb the tree and swim in the river, especially the deep pools that form when the shoreline cuts into the bank enough to lessen the current."
"Responsibility can be cleverly twisted to be such fun," O'wain added. He had his duties and he did try and make them fun. Flirting with his wingmates and working with Nishkath to pull some stunts when the repetitive drills became boring. "Just keep in mind potential consequences."
"No need to be sorry, I did sort of lead myself open for. In a way it's true, there are many things I don't take seriously enough. I enjoy a good laugh, love to party, and I most definitely enjoy being around women in all their frilly splendor. I do what work I am expected to do to the best of my ability, that I don't shirk...but I am far from the perfect man in most women's minds. I am the perfect man for a good time however."
"If she already likes these things in you, you don't have to change who you are. Just be who you are around her. Otherwise, if you try and change, and end up changing in the wrong way, she may not like it as much. It's a good idea to make a few modifications to ensure she's happy. SHe likes you in a leadership role, which could simply mean she likes to follow your lead in things. It doesn't necessarily mean being responsible. It is good to be aware she could get hurt if you do reckless things so being a little more careful won't hurt. There are plenty of ways to have great fun without turning into a boring stick in the mud."
"Planning something for you two to do together then surprising her with it, is one way to take charge and take care of her. That surprise can be anything from cooking a nice meal with your own hands to finding the perfect spot further up the river where there is a big tree perfect for climbing. Once you get there you have a picnic lunch all set up for you two to enjoy. And climb the tree and swim in the river, especially the deep pools that form when the shoreline cuts into the bank enough to lessen the current."
"Responsibility can be cleverly twisted to be such fun," O'wain added. He had his duties and he did try and make them fun. Flirting with his wingmates and working with Nishkath to pull some stunts when the repetitive drills became boring. "Just keep in mind potential consequences."